Part of our journey is taking a step back. Taking a step back isn’t really a step back in human evaluation standards but get yourself into natural distance.
We are human beings. We see ourselves as social beings, so in consequence we need other beings to exist in our world.
And the biggest party has no worth when you can’t share the experience.
Hand in hand
There are two states of loneliness – physical loneliness and psychological loneliness. They both go hand in hand with each other and it is simply your awareness going through into LOVE.
Physical loneliness can met you BEING seperated or avoided by others, or can be forwarded by doing so on your own – consciously or unconsciously. It doesn’t matter at all the reason, because the only ONE leading the situation is YOU.
Whenever you try to force LIFE in a direction which isn’t congruent with (y)our true nature (although you THINK so – note : this is what the mind does) – you get a reminder of the path. You can deny it, you can go into extreme about it but it is your nature. Every try is a punch in your own body. So the process initiated will direct you directly into LOVE.
You can LISTEN or still go on with THE SEARCH.
Love does not asking about TIME & SPACE.
What life is telling
Finding yourself in these situations will come up with a lot of contemplation.
- Where is the logic?
- Why me?
- What is life telling me here?
See – loneliness is created and lead by our mind. It is some kind of distance we set up as we
- find no appreciation in our defined environment
- give no appreciation in our defined environment
This has nothing to do with LOVE first hand but only SEARCH.
The search for LOVE
In consequence it is THE SEARCH FOR LOVE, (y)our true origin. This happens only in our mind. The reason is: our mind forget about it while running around searching for answers outside of yourself. The answer is you.
- Finding out comes up with a lot of insanity.
- Finding out comes up with a lot of victims.
- Finding out comes up with a lot of blood.
- Finding out comes up with a lot of pain.
- Finding out comes up with a lot of loss.
Can you embrace it?
It hurts hard and is a personal concrete threat, when it is family. It hurts a little bit less, when it is friend and close environment. It hurts much more less, when it is somewhere in your country. It is really bad but not that kind of severe when it happens on another continent.
Happy like you
The distance we have to an event determines our realization and depth of awareness. As long as we make a different – it is a separation process and we limit chances for dissolving.
Your counterpart also wants to be happy like you want. Some get lost in THE SEARCH and their choice of medium becomes extreme by desperation not finding their origin.
Extreme means the depth of yin and yang. They may chose high energy states of attacking physical or by words or they may chose psychological triggers of relationship loss in case a certain behaviour doesn’t fit in the gap of awareness.
The key to open the door
It is just NOT having access to their true nature. Doors have closed and although everything is in place they have no key to open the door. By BEING aware for yourself and knowing (without THINKING) about their situation you can dissolve any situation in a heartbeat into LOVE. You are not longer falling into traps of discussing with emotions or fighting physically or psychologically. You simply are.
Whenever you have to FIGHT for something, you have left the path!
It doesn’t mean there isn’t any truth, but
The pure ACT OF FIGHTING is a reminder, something isn’t in full expression.
Enlightment of your environment
It is a myth to fight for your right to party. It is a myth to fight for LOVE. It is the romantic version of overcoming obstacles for a better world. The world is ok and always was. We by ourself limit awareness by playing the game of search. There never was a question mark.
We are talking about our childs. It is our education which brought them here.
By becoming aware there is no need of SEARCH to find yourself but express your individual beauty without any limitations in ONENESS, you will dive into an infinite stream of energy, that enlighten your environment like the birth of a new earth.
This isn’t rocket science but pure LOVE and it is always there.